Why Motivation Doesn't Work
And The Truth About
'Happy & Successful'

My life was so bad I could hardly get out of bed in the morning...

Every day was a struggle. It was a relief to get to the end of the day and get in bed and disappear into the blackness of sleep every night. It was so bad (and I'm not exaggerating here) that I struggled to pedal my bicycle downhill! I'm serious! It was that bad!

But then magically, it all changed.

Somehow, just a few months later I was the happiest person in the world! I became one of those annoying people who jumped out of bed and enjoyed every day. I felt excited and happy to be alive, I was smiling a lot and having fun and genuinely enjoying my life.

Yes, I know, it's sickening. And you're probably think I'm lying. Reading this might even be making you a little bit mad. You might even have a voice in your head telling you I'm an ass hole who doesn't know what he's talking about and you should stop reading now. How do I know this? I've been there, done that.

"I was deep in debt, working hard and not achieving what I wanted. Now, I'm debt free, I own and operate a successful business, and am closing on a new house with my family." ROBERT NEFF, Ph.D., Sports Psychologist (as seen on CNN) author of "Roapmap to the Zone." www.robertneff.com

So what's the secret?

I'll be honest. I had no idea how I went from dragging myself out of bed and hating each day, to being the happiest I had ever been in my life.

This may sound strange, but not knowing what happened drove me crazy.

I had to know what had happened because if I didn't know what happened, I could never make it happen again. So I started looking...and looking...and looking...

Eventually I found it - the secret of what pulled me out of my funk.

But first, let's take a little step back and look at this thing. Maybe you're thinking, "What a load of BS. Just because it worked for him, doesn't mean it will work for me. He got lucky, I'm not lucky."

Welcome to the club! That's what I thought too - I just got lucky, or there was some quirk of fate, or some mysterious force or maybe I had cracked and was imagining things.

This is the most practical guide to personal growth I’ve read! Diane Kennedy, RichDad Advisor™, NY Times Best-Selling Author

But I wasn't imagining it. I was making 3 times more money than I had ever made, I had a cool sports car, an imported dirt bike, I loved my job, I had lots of energy, cool friends and a wonderful relationship. You can't argue with facts like that.

You see, after I discovered the exact mechanics of what happened, it became clear to me that it is not luck, or fate or whatever excuse we all make for not knowing how life really works and how goals are really reached.

Along the way I also learned the hard lesson that a lot of what I "knew" to be true, was a lie. "Life is a mystery", "Things just happen to us out of our control", "I'm not meant to be happy". Yes, I used to believe that too. But it's garbage.

So How Did I Get There?

My life was terrible. And then it was the greatest it had ever been. I wanted to know why. I wanted to be able to do it again if I ever got in such a hole ever again. But most of all, I wanted to tell other people how to do it. It's a natural thing - when you discover something great, you want to share it.

So I wrote it down in great detail. I put down the rules you've never been taught about the invisible workings of life. Not stuff like "love your neighbor" or "give to charity". Stuff like "this is step one, and this is how to get step 1 right so you can move onto step 2. This is step 2 and this is why you might not be getting step 2 right and how to fix it so you can move to step 3".

Sounds simple. But knowing the correct steps and their correct order is the difference between success and failure.

The sentence above is the most important thing to learn first. In fact it is so important, I'm going to repeat it so you understand how important it is.

Knowing the correct steps and their correct order is the difference between success and failure.

I'll prove it. Take for example building a house. There is a correct set of steps and a correct order of steps.

What would happen if you tried to put the walls up before you put the foundation down? Or what would happen if you tried to put the roof on before you built the walls? You wouldn't have a house. You'd have a mess, like most people's lives who don't know the steps and apply them in the correct order.

I know that house example sounds oversimplified and silly, but if you don't have what you want, I can guarantee you are trying to achieve your goals with the incorrect steps or your steps are in the incorrect order.

So I wrote down the correct steps for building your life and success the way you want it. The correct steps in the correct order.

But that's not all...

You see, there are a lot of teachers and trainers out there who know some of the steps and their correct order. What they don't have is ALL the steps in their correct order.

"Thank you for your book, probably the best practical book I have ever come across. You may be interested to know it broke me completely out of the box I was operating in over the last year or so.

I couldn't see what I was doing, your book showed me.

It has changed me forever, very powerful material."

Michael Lampett, London, UK

The biggest lie about achieving your goals and being happy...

Things not working out for you? Life sucks? Not getting what you want? What you need is motivation and inspiration.

That's a big lie - You don't need motivation!

Achieving your goals and being happy is not about motivation, discipline, focus, dedication, commitment. Yes, those things count, but they're not going to get there by themselves. As Tony Robbins says "It doesn't matter how motivated you are, if you're heading east looking for a sunset, you're going to be disappointed".

Motivation is just adding energy to whatever you're doing. If you're doing it wrong, it doesn't matter how much energy you add to it - it's not going to work.

I'm not saying motivation and commitment etc are bad. They are a tool and they have to be used correctly.

That's why motivational seminars and books and tapes don't work long term. Sure, you feel great after an inspiring motivational seminar or book, but it doesn't last.

What most people do after a seminar is exactly what they did before, just with more energy. So they just get more screwed up quicker.

Motivation doesn't solve anything.

Motivation is a headache pill. It takes the pain away for a while, but it doesn't take away what caused the headache, it doesn't solve the problem. Next time you bang your head on that same wall again, you'll get another headache and have to take another aspirin.

And that's what most people do - they bang their head on the same wall over and over until they get overwhelmed by failure and quit.

They get "beat up by life" and begin to believe lies like "I'll never be successful", "It can't be done", "Life is hard" "I was never meant to be successful/happy/in love/popular".

But that's just a big lie! It's not life that is beating you up! It's you beating yourself up by running into the same problem over and over and not knowing how to solve it. It's not your fault - nobody told you different!

Why People Paid $250 an Hour to Work with Me

It upset me so much to see people doing this to themselves that I had to do something about it. So I became a personal coach. A therapist, counselor, call it what you will. After a few years of training and practice I became so good at it that people traveled half way across the country and paid up to $250 and hour to work with me.

That's all great, and I loved being able to help people like that, but there's a big limit on how many people you can help at a time. It didn't seem very effective for me to be teaching the same thing over and over one person at a time. And what about all the people who couldn't afford $250 an hour but deserved success and happiness as much as anyone else?

I could not imagine my life without using Paul as my personal coach. I am just sorry I did not do it 10 years ago, my life would be completely different!

I would recommend anyone that wants to be successful, to hire Paul as their personal coach.

S. E. Mertens
Director of Operations, www.TaxLoopHoles.com
Phoenix, AZ

I knew what I had to do. I had to write it all down in a way that anyone could understand it So I bit the bullet and started writing a book telling people exactly what my clients were learning for $250 an hour.

I sweated over that book. I wrote it once, then rewrote it and then rewrote it again. I had to get it just right so that anyone could pick it up and start reading and understand it. After all, this is not light subject matter - how life works.

But I did it. If you ask anyone who knows me, they'll tell you I'm not one to brag or blow my own horn. However, I am very proud of this book and the feedback people like you have given me tells me that I achieved my goal. It is a book anyone can read and understand and use to start changing their life immediately.

So what's in the book? Give me something I can use now!

Here are some general pointers from the book. These are just the tip of the iceberg, there's much more in depth knowledge, training and technique in the book.

• You don't know how you're sabotaging yourself. You're screwing yourself over and you don't even know it. How do I know this? Simple! If you knew how you were sabotaging yourself you would stop doing it and get what you want.

• You have sub-personalities in conflict with each other and with YOU. Yeah, I know. That sounds like psycho-babble. But that doesn't mean it's not true.
  
  In simple English, all I'm saying is you have voices in your head that disagree with each other. You might not have noticed them before now, but they're there. I'll show you.
  
  Think of something you really want - for example a big house or a fancy car, or a meaningful relationship. Now listen for the voice in your head saying something like "You don't deserve it" or "You shouldn't have that because ____." or "You'll never get that, you're just a _____".
  
  Test it yourself - think of something you really want and listen to what happens in your head... the squabble... the opposition. Not exactly a formula for success is it? If you can't agree with yourself, what chance have you got?
  
  Whoaa buddy! Come straight back here - don't get distracted and don't get into a fight with the voices - that only makes it worse.
  
  Note: Reading this kind of material will make some of those voices nervous because they know their time is limited. They will try to get you to run in the opposite direction by making you feel uncomfortable!
  
  Don't worry, you're not crazy, it's normal to have all those voices in your head. The trick is getting them to work with you and not against you. And that you'll learn in the book.

• You have incorrect ideas about yourself. This sounds strange because we all think we know who we are. But there is a very high chance that the person you think you are and the person you really are aren't the same.
  
  We all like to think we know who we are, but most of the time there is a difference between who we think we are and who we really are. This is a conflict that makes you blind to why things are the way they are.

• Part of yourself is tied up in past disappointments/failures/upsets. We've all had traumatic incidents in our lives. These have an impact on us whether we know it or not. The reality is that traumatic incidents rob you of the energy and intelligence you have to use right here, right now.
  
  The bottom line is you don't have your full horsepower available to you. You're less aware, less energetic, less yourself than you could and should be. You're an eight cylinder car running on 5 cylinders. You're a horse with 3 legs. (OK, that was a bad analogy, but you get the picture). But don't worry - t happens to everyone, and most importantly it can be reversed.


• You think you have to do something to get what you want.
  
  Now give me a minute here because this one is a little more difficult to explain.
  
  Yes, you have to do something to get what you want. Letting the "Universe" or whatever the new-age crap says about thinking happy thoughts and letting it all come to you is egotistical, narcisistic nonsense.
  
  But you don't start with doing. You start with BEing. You have to BE a succesful person to do what successful people do, and then you'll HAVE what successful people have.
  
  Here's another silly example. If you think of yourself as a loser, if you've always been a loser, then you are BEing a loser. And no matter how many books you read about what successful, cool people do, it won't change anything. A loser doesn't DO what successful people do, so it's never going to work.
  
  Remember all those grand plans you had about what to do to be successful and happy that you never quite got done? It's becuase you were still BEing someone who didn't DO those sorts of things. So of course, you never did them.
  
  This may not be quite clear yet. It takes quite a bit of explaining because it is such a kick in the teeth for most us. It shakes you to the core, makes you feel like you don't know who you are.
  
  Hey, I never said it was a walk in the park. But if you really want to get somewhere different from where you are now, you'll get through it just fine. "Blueprint" has plenty more training and explanation of these core concepts.
  
  

Yes, she spent over $200,000 on self-help, self-improvement and gawd knows what else. Read what she says - "Blueprint" was what she needed to make it work.

Sheesh! Quit already!

OK, that's just the tip of the iceberg, but it's a lot isn't it? And that's why reading the book over and over is a good idea - people tell me every time through they pick up something different.

So I wrote this book so that if you don't have $250 an hour to be my client you can still learn what you need to know to be happy and get what you want. You deserve it! And I'm glad I did write it - the people who have told me how their lives have changed made it all worthwhile.

So how is this book different from all the others?

• Step by Step Guide to Improving Your Life - All the steps in the correct order. With techniques for fixing errors in each step.
  
  This book doesn't just have a few steps without ways to fix hiccups at each step. It has each and every step to being happy and achieving your goals.
• Written in Plain English - This is not a complicated psychology textbook that puts you to sleep or gets you tongue tied. It is written to be easy to read, and entertaining. It has stories, exercises and yes, some deeper stuff of course. But there's 3 ways to learn the important points - story, exercise and theory.

When you understand the simple concepts in "Blueprint" you can immediately start making the changes that seemed so difficult before. I'm not saying it's going to always be easy - sometimes you have to make an effort to get where you want to go. But knowing what you're doing makes it so much easier.

You won't be struggling against an invisible enemy, or running into an invisible wall, or hitting that glass ceiling. You'll know what you have to do, and you will know to get it done.

That's the largest part of the battle - knowing what to do and when to do it. The "Blueprint" gives you a framework and a model to put the steps in the right order, and gives you tools to troubleshoot when things don't go the way you want them to.

When you don't know what to do to get out of the mess you're in, the "Blueprint" will tell you.

When you don't know how to overcome the unconscious limits you've put on yourself, the "Blueprint" will show you.

When you're doing it "right" but getting it "wrong", the "Blueprint" will show you what you're really doing!

What You Get (It's a lot!)

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	BLUEPRINT WORKBOOK ($27.97) After I wrote BlueprintI realised people wanted and needed even more practical, hands on exercises to help them get over the stubborn obstacles and to help them get the principles of the book engrained into their way of being. So I wrote the "Blueprint Workbook". It is, like it says, a workbook. It is almost entirely exercises and training for making what you learned in Blueprint a part of your everyday life. Although Blueprint does have exercises in it, it doesn't have the depth of training you'll get from the workbook. You get "Blueprint Workbook" as a pdf ebook download when you buy "Blueprint". Print it out and write on it as you do the exercises.
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One of the major reasons people don't get what they want is because they simply don't take ACTION. You have to take action to get anywhere.

The problem is that you build inertia. The longer you don't move on your goals, the harder it is to get moving again.

So here's my challenge to you - Take your first step NOW! Look at getting this book as your FIRST step to getting moving again.

As you'll read in "Blueprint", making a physical move towards your goal, even if symbolic, is a powerful activator. When you make a move you have started towards your goal and it is like the engine starting in a car. When the engine starts, the car has to go somewhere.

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"Paul Drayton has changed my life. With his coaching, I am putting my life back on track and realizing that I am in control of my emotions.

Through each of my sessions with Paul, I am able to grow both in my personal and professional life. I am enjoying life again the experiences that it brings."

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Also, another reason you might be stuck on your goals is because you don't know how or where to start. That's a reality that stops a lot of people. But it's a wrong reason, created by incorrect thinking about goals.

I'm going to give you a free tip here from "Blueprint". It's very valuable, and if you put it to work for you, you can change your life. I know from experience that it works. You'll understand why it works when you read "Blueprint". But for now I'll just give you the short version.

The tip is: Decision comes before Planning. Or put another way, "WHERE" comes before "HOW".  

What does that mean? It sounds really simple, and it is simple, but it is also very profound.

It means is you have to decide WHERE you're going before you decide HOW you're going to get there.

That's obvious, you scream! I know it's obvious, but that doesn't stop people from doing it. Have you ever thought "I want X" and then almost immediately thought "But I don't know how to get X" and given up on it? I'll bet you stopped thinking about X right then and starting thinking about something you knew how to get.

Just because you don't know HOW to get something, doesn't mean you can't DECIDE to get it. First you DECIDE to get something, then you figure out HOW to get it. It's a simple mistake to make. We've all done it!

What is this worth to you?

There is way more than 1 hour of coaching in "Blueprint". But I thought it would be fair to pay the equivalent of one hour of my time to get all the secrets and techniques of Blueprint. After all, I spent almost 10 years learning everything I distilled into that book. So $197 seemed like a good price for the book, plus the bonuses.

The way I look at it, if you're not willing to spend $200 to change your life, you probably don't really want it.

This book is different from the many others that I have read, ever! It is so powerful that it is about to do what no other book has achieved and that is to start me working for myself, earning my 'own crust' so to speak.

I must have read about 60 self-improvement books these last 5 years in an effort to motivate myself to start earning money rather than merely existing on my service pension.

Some people would envy me, being able to choose what I do with my day, but I still want to contribute to life or society in some way. You can only do so much voluntary work and visiting.

With that background it has to be a rather special book to get me so 'fired up'.

Most of us get an idea, but it does not come to fruition simply because it is ill-conceived and does not have the pre-requisite 'steps' that the author spells out in detail in his book. Early on in the book these steps are illustrated as an emphasis to simplify his message.

Some of the books I have previously read advocate the importance of 'synchronicity' in taking action. Whilst this maybe the term of the moment, Paul Drayton takes a more pragmatic line such as visualizing in hologram form what it is you want to do and you will succeed with the right amount of drive. I cannot see the sense in making major decisions in my life based on some 'sign' that I receive as advocated in some other books I have read.

I liked his explanation that we are not our mind, but YOU. I found great comfort in that as it implies eastern philosophy and the vitally important aspect of spiritual life in humans. Please note however, this is not a religious book.

The writings in this book are so deep and ingrained that they could only have been written by someone who has previously been unhappy with his lot in life, but has overcome this and wants to relay his experiences to help others.

Get this book and get clarification on how to live a successful life no matter what 'yardstick' you use.

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P.S.-

This is it. This moment right now is your life. What you do with it is up to you.

When it's all over, you're going to realize there is no-one to blame. You did what you did and that's why you got what you got. NOW is your chance to make changes. Now is the time to take a chance. If you're not going to do it now, when are you going to do it?

You've got nothing to lose! If it doesn't work for you, if it's not right for you, if you don't like the font in the book (or whatever!) you can get all your money back. You lose nothing.

But you could get a lot out of it - there are so many people that have. If you could only meet ONE of the people who has read this book and followed it, and then told you what it did for them, you would buy it right now for yourself and all your friends and then tell me what an idiot I am for giving it away so cheaply. 

Here is a free coaching session. Pretend I am asking you "What would it take for you to get started on your goals right now?" Think about it for a moment. What is it you need to get started RIGHT NOW?

Probably you need to know where to start or why it went wrong last time or why you don't want to start. Probably last time round you hit a dead end. That's exactly why I wrote "Blueprint" - just for you and the problems you are facing right now!

So what are you waiting for? Still listening to that voice in your head telling you to "be careful, don't get screwed over, don't take chances, be safe, don't look like a fool, this won't work".

One of the things you will learn in "Blueprint" is where these voices come from, and how to know and choose when to listen to them. And that's just one thing you'll learn that's worth thousands of dollars. 

But, until you learn that, you're just going to have take charge and ignore the voices in your head that are telling you you're never going to change, and there's nothing that's going to work for you. This is your lesson for today - take charge of the meeting in your head. Be the leader. Decide what is going to happen and do it.

Whether it's closing this page and not taking a chance (maybe this isn't right for you), or whether it is clicking on the buy link and investing in yourself, here is a chance for you to learn from visiting this page - be the leader, make a decision and take action. 

Thank you for visiting and I hope you learned something useful about yourself, your goals and your happiness.

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